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A Princess Without A Prince

Hey Y'all! I know it's been like a lifetime since I've last posted, my apologies. I have been super busy and preoccupied with a lot. So as you can probably guess by the title of this blog, this blog is based around the subject most of us love - which is love itself. Almost everywhere I go, I see a "happy couple". There is always someone with someone. Our world has gotten pretty used to the whole idea of being with someone, so it almost seems foreign when there is a single person in the mix of it all. From the moment I was six years old, I had the dream of being with someone, someone who could make me feel as if I was the only one in the world , as though I was worth more than a thousand shining pearls. I was solely convinced that I would one day marry Kendrick Lamar- which is a side note of course. Singleness is something that is almost looked down upon by our society. We have become so accustomed to having the mindset of being with someone , and if you are not in a relationship you're doing something wrong. Oh, how we have been lied to. Don't get me wrong , being in a relationship with someone is something special, something nothing else can take the place of and if you're in one, then you must know exactly what I mean. I am currently not in a romantic sort of relationship , but am open to future possibilities. I have come a long way from six years old , thinking that having a boyfriend would be life's greatest definition. However, I have always been an open minded king of person, willing to take an oppeetinity if it comes - a "Go Getter" some would even say. So let's hold up for a sec. If you are a single person , you know the consistent struggle of the question " So, is there someone special ?" If I could count the amount of times I have been asked this question, I could fill a jar of M&M's - twice. It used to bug me so much when I was asked, I used to feel so lame because out of my 5 best friends, I would be the only one still single. Understanding that singleness is not a curse or a pre destined future can be tough. I am going to University and am still single , but when I say that I have learned so much in my singleness , more than I would have being in a relationship, I'm telling the complete truth. I have had the opportunity to grow in so many ways. It's been such a blessing to live the single life - and continues to be as I'm still living that life. So if you are feeling as though you don't fit in with your clique or group of gals- be reassured, singleness is such a gift and the best learning process you could have. Trust me ! There is someone out there for me and for you and when the time is fit, they will appear to you just when the time is right. Keep learning , keep growing and keep being you !! Be single and patient to mingle. You are all so worth it . Much love !! - A Xo

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